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Life in the Slow Lane

For nine and half years we have been living in a fast lane with no slowing down in sight. Thank goodness our fast lane allowed us to carpool with people we love. Carpooling made our travel in the fast lane a little more bearable. Lately, our life seems to be moving into the slow lane. This pace is more our style but I have to admit it's hard to get use too.

Ashley has been doing so well over the last month and half. We have not received any calls from the school nurse about Ashley running a fever, having a tummy ache or a head ache. We haven't been to see a doctor since her last visit to Shands at the end of February. However, we did see her pediatrician for immunizations last month. I think maybe our little lion (biliary atresia) is sleeping. Personally, I hope and pray that the lion sleeps for a very long time!

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