Our Thanksgiving

First, let me say that I am so very thankful for many things none of which are more important than my family and my friends. My world would not be the same without my husband who puts up with more of my mistakes then anyone should. I am thankful to Brad for his wisdom, his sense of humor and his love. I am thankful to Ashley for her strength and her love for life. But more importantly I am thankful for my faith, my God, who without Him I would be a lost soul in a life of chaos.

Our week celebrating Thanksgiving with family went well but of course never normal. Ashley was taken to a local walk-in health clinic on Monday because she was complaining of a sore throat. The doctor prescribed an antibiotic for a very mild case of strep throat. Despite Ashley's little setback, we had a lot of fun with family. Ashley and Brad enjoyed spending lots of time with all of their cousins; all 7 of them.

On Saturday, we had a football party and watched Alabama beat Auburn and Florida beat FSU. The SEC Championship game with Alabama and Florida will be an exciting game - GO GATORS. We got back home Sunday night to a pile of mail and a very happy kitty cat. Skylar has not left my side since we arrived home.

Happy to be home and sleeping in the comfort of my own bed.

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